A talking stage has a natural length, and past it, stalling is the decision. Nobody stays undefined by accident for three months. Someone is choosing it, and it is not you, because you're the one reading this.
It is not too late and you have not wasted anything. You have data now that you didn't have in week one.
Ask yourself what's changed since month one. If the honest answer is 'nothing', that's the answer to your other question too.
“i've loved this, and i think i want more than where it's sat for a while. can we talk about it?”
“we've been in the talking stage long enough to qualify for tenure”
“this has been the same for months and i want more than this. do you?”
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